While her job is to dominate, when she returned to the trade as a mother, “I had more difficulty being sadistic to people, so I rebranded myself as more of a compassionate dominatrix,” she said. “It’s pretty niche, but I would say that it’s very widespread, the amount of men who have these fetishes,” she said. Rather, the men masturbate or have sex with other men on camera while she watches. “It’s difficult for people to understand because when they think of sex work, they always think that it’s women being humiliated by men and being made to please men, and my job turns all that dynamic on its head,” she said.ĭuring sessions – which can last from three minutes to seven hours – Witt is not the entertainer. “They want to demean themselves for my pleasure.” The men she sees “want to be humiliated,” she said. “They tell me, ‘I have a small penis and I want you to laugh at me.'” “This sort of clientele is very interested in having their penis size demeaned – sometimes this is real or imagined,” she said. She advertised her services online and used a friend’s house for sessions, eventually building up a clientele who begged her to punish them. “I had thought being a dominatrix was like riding a bike, something you never forgot, but I actually had forgotten, because I had been in this different mindset for so long that it was hard to get back into it.”Ĥ While her kids are at school from 8 a.m. “I was nervous I kind of lost my mojo,” she continued. Working as a dom “got me out of debt once, and so when I left my husband I already knew that this was the way that I was going to save myself financially,” she said, despite being out of practice. “It really challenged my concept of my identity.”Īfter three years of being a dominatrix, she moved to Spain and back, living a “very suburban, vanilla life for about 10 years.” But she found herself divorced and in need of money as a stay-at-home mom. “I whipped a man that night, and I really saw that I could do it,” Witt said. “I was very shy and a ‘nice girl’ with a university education, and I didn’t think I had the strength to embody this dominatrix persona.”īut the woman convinced her she fit the bill, even inviting her to a “slave party.” “My curiosity was piqued because I knew it was a very lucrative job and yet I didn’t think somebody like me could do it,” she admitted. When Witt was creating a documentary about Latin rock bands, she stumbled across a woman at a concert who revealed she was a dominatrix. She first found her calling as a dominatrix when she was 27 and struggling with $30,000 of debt. “It’s showbiz!”Ĥ After divorcing her husband, she resorted to dominating men to pay the bills. “I’m creating a world – you can’t be just like, ‘Yes,’ ‘No,'” she continued. “The way I keep people on the phone or texting, I’m improvising – they’ll give me information and I’ll give something back.” I like that I’m able to be very imaginative,” she said of her current role. She’s been able to teach art at her children’s school and has held various corporate jobs, even achieving a master’s degree, but she “didn’t like the commitment.” “I’m a taxpayer, I’m a mother, I have been in your child’s classroom and I’m also an adult worker.” While she’s teaching grown men to behave, she’s also attempting to normalize sex work and debunk the myths of it being “immoral” or “perverted.” “It’s like child who wants a chocolate bar: You just have to say no.” “He was like, ‘Please, please, please, I need to see you!'” she said. She remembers one night at 10:30 when a client begged to see her, throwing a “tantrum” when she declined. “There is a lot of male immaturity – when men try to manipulate me, the tactics are very similar.” “The way I treat men has no bearing on the way I treat my children, but what I’ve learned psychologically from my children helps me in this world,” she said. She even uses what she’s learned as a mother on her clients, despite wanting to keep the two worlds separate.Ĥ Witt first found her calling as a dominatrix when she was 27. “I have to parcel out that time, as I can’t do it when they’re around.”īeing a dominatrix, she continued, “works really well with being a mom,” especially a single one. “As soon as I drop them off, I turn on my phone,” Witt, from Los Angeles, said. She conducts web sessions, phone calls and messages with her 20 male clients throughout the day before her sons, Oliver, 13, and Gabriel, 12, come home. to 3 p.m., Emme Witt, 48, tortures men for their pleasure. I’m a ‘mommy’ dominatrix - CEOs pay me to humiliate them with my hijab onĪ mother who works as a dominatrix rakes in $4,000 a month while working only during school hours. ‘Cheesecake killer’ selling 3D art in the clink, is ‘on edge all the time’ as she appeals murder convictionĭominatrix sentenced after ordering sub to attack boyfriend with hammer, killing him Dem doxxed as dominatrix bolsters congressional campaign with Playboy profile
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